![]() Once I came to terms that I was may be on the gay scale, and was fully accepting of it… I later on told my mom (I’m 28 to add context) who basically threw in my face it was because of trauma and I felt safe with women and it was a phase that will pass. After a few years, I realized I really didn’t want threesomes I wanted women. I spent most of my adult life convincing men to have FFM threesomes with me, and just chalked it up as normal especially since men found it sexy. I also had this type of experience… just in a less innocent way lol. I just keep falling in love with straight allo women and still have no clue how im supposed to date (i kno, cringe lol) I still envy the bi and allo women because of a much bigger dating pool than me. ![]() Moreover till age 20 to let go of the desire to be bi for the sake of societal acceptance (In my country lesbians are more disliked than bi women). It however took me till age 15 to determine that i very likely wasnt bi but rather a femme lesbian who is into other femmes, and till 19 to be so conscious and sure of that realisation to voice it and adopt lesbian as an identity. ![]() Ive Known i was on the ace spectrum (gray ace) since cca age 14. I think this is what allowed me to realise I wasn't straight very early on I'm from a pretty Conservative Slavic country where there were a lot of aggressive gender roles forced upon me, so I became a feminist and critical very early on. I spotted this kind of thinking in myself as not straight very early on, still in elementary school. Let the mods know if the link is expired. This Discord is a cooperative effort between various LGBT+ subs.
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